It changes your perspective. You see all the people around and you realize “oh, this person is a son/daughter to someone”. You also gain much respect to other parents around you, as you gain the insight of being one. Hey, it is hard work waking up every 2 hours to feed and change the baby. That’s what I know now. What will take to bring it past 1 year old mark? How many sacrifices?
Because hungry baby is definitely the priority number one. You have job to done? You want to relax a little? That’s not happening my dear. And thanks for the hormones that make you act upon that baby cry without frustration. Just one look at it and “our cute monster” will be fed, loved and kissed to sleep.
Then life rhythm has to adapt. Baby is asleep? Quickly, do whatever you planned to do in the next 2-3 hours. No slacking off! Prioritize! Don’t get distracted by news sites, Youtube and other stuff or you will regret it with the next baby’s cry! Who knew baby is the ultimate motivator and the best way to schedule your day. No need for planners or reminders. “Pomodoro-Baby” technique is very effective.
Speaking of plans, mine is to start working on youtube videos, starting with update video. Being YT partner is a motivational factor, but I also had some projects I wanted to try on. I won’t be able to stream anymore (I think), but it is a good opportunity to try something else instead.
That is… if the baby allows.
Shogi is my life 